Things I am grateful for often come from the smallest moments — have you ever heard of the butterfly effect? If one event did not happen, then its path would not come to be true. Or is it? I believe that even the smallest occurrence can and will influence your life and lead you to your destination, which no one knows.
If you had asked 10-year-old little Sharon, “Did you know you would be producing events that hundreds, if not thousands, would attend?” Most likely, she would brush it off, be like, “Me? I wanted to be a singer,” as her little head would not grasp how influential this woman becomes.
Lessons from Childhood
I might have an advantage over others, as I have more than 37 years of experience. I have been learning and innovating since childhood. Perks of having both parents with an entrepreneurial mindset, it was only evident it would rub off on me too. Lucky for them, I was a curious child, and at the raw age of 8, I had already understood the power of saving money, thanks to my father.
As for my mother, she taught me a completely different lesson. It is one thing to make money, but if you are not waking up each morning with a kind spirit in your heart, then is it a life that is worth living? And I stand by it. Being kind is a choice, one that I choose every day, and find to be one of the most incredible traits a person could have.
My Husband, Dennis
Relationship-wise, I have found my person. The one I call my husband, Dennis, who truly saw me to the core and let that Sharon be unapologetically her! A person who not only stood by my side but also experienced life with me, through thick and thin, always supporting my decisions and dreams.
A kind of love I want to be found by everyone, but this one is mine.
Sweet to think that Dennis could be the reason for my good health too. It is true that sleeping next to a loved one can offer numerous benefits, including improved sleep quality, better mental health, and more. With the stress of running a very busy event agency as well as having my own consulting firm, he is my anchor.
My advice: prioritise a healthy lifestyle and mental health, as in the long run, not doing so can and will catch up to you. To be able to enjoy life to the fullest, please, if not for you, then for your loved ones, take care of yourself.
Go Out!
Being busy for three decades is no joke, and I am so glad that I was able to travel and explore all that I have in my life so far. In a way, there is no such thing as too little or too much to see. However, having that freedom of transportation feels so alive, simply having that power of, “Okay, I pack my bags and next thing I am out the door!”
Do not wait until you are established to see the world. In my case, I was blessed to have the opportunity to see the world as I built my business, something that others may never have the chance to do.
In short, just do it!
Do What You Love
The best part is that I get to keep working, doing what I adore! With amazing clients who put their trust and belief in me, it fills my heart each day. Their ability to come up with ideas really pushes my creative senses, enriching my skills in creating event themes, concepts, and strategies never seen before. Love, love, love a good challenge!
The People
Lastly, your social circle truly matters — whether it’s family, colleagues, clients, or my personal favourite, the event community. Surrounding yourself with people who genuinely understand your world and support your ambitions is invaluable. When burnout hits (and it does for all of us), these are the people who lift you up, keep you grounded, and remind you why you started in the first place. They are, without a doubt, my rocks.
Especially the women in my life. I have never felt so encouraged, inspired, and capable of uplifting others in return. There’s a special kind of magic in surrounding yourself with strong, compassionate women — those who see your potential, challenge your limits, and celebrate your wins as if they were their own. Together, we rise higher, creating ripples of empowerment that reach far beyond our individual paths.
Find your people. It’s easy to lose yourself in the fast-paced rhythm of life and business. However, remember that being alone is not a prerequisite for success. Sometimes, your most incredible supporters come from unexpected places. Even strangers across the world can become your people, just as the global event community has become mine.
Expand your circle. Reach out. Connect. There are people out there who genuinely want to see you grow, thrive, and shine — all you have to do is let them in.
Expand your circle! There are people out there who want to see you grow and thrive.
